POLIOMORSKI ODNOS

PREDLOŽIO ŽENI DA MALO ZAČINE BRAK 'Razmišljali smo da postanemo svingeri, ali shvatili smo da to ne želimo. A onda mi je na pamet palo nešto drugo'

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Melin, Rodrigo i Lucy

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Marketinški stručnjak Rodrigo Contreras Diaz (41) iz Monterreyja u Meksiku u svibnju 2012. godine preko zajedničkog prijatelja upoznao je sadašnju suprugu Melin Velasco Reyes (31), nutricionistkinju iz Guadalajare. Rodrigo ju je zaprosio te iste večeri, a par se vjenčao već tjedan dana poslije.

Iako je, kako sam kaže, "imao oči samo za nju", Melin je odmah na početku objasnio kako ne želi tradicionalnu, monogamnu vezu, jer on "previše voli svoj alternativan način života i otvorenu ljubav". Njegovoj odabranici to nije smetalo, prenosi Daily Mail.

Lucy, Melin and Rodrigo kissing each other. MONTERREY CITY, MEXICO: THIS COUPLE married ONE WEEK AFTER THEY FIRST MET and have since invited a woman TWENTY-THREE YEARS his junior to join their relationship. On May 14, 2012, marketing entrepreneur, Rodrigo Contreras Diaz (41) from Monterrey City, Mexico, met his now wife, nutritionist, Melin Velasco Reyes (31) from Guadalajara City, through a mutual friend. Sparks flew instantly and Rodrigo ended up proposing to Melin that same day, to which she agreed. After just a week of preparations, they got married on May 21, 2012. Despite only having eyes for her, he explained to her early on in their relationship that he didn?t want a traditional monogamous relationship as he lived an alternative lifestyle and was open to a polyamorous relationship, which she accepted. For four years they focussed on their relationship then re-visited their exploration of other forms of partnerships and searched for another woman to join them in their union. On April 27, 2016, whilst they were both at a bar, they met one of the waitresses, Lucy (18), who was in high school at the time. Initially Lucy was shocked when Rodrigo began flirting with her in front of Melin, but after a few hours of chatting, they became closer and formed a polyamorous relationship. Since then, he admits that the addition of Lucy has positively improved his marriage with Melin and they now all plan to get married as a throuple, although Melin and Lucy, who are both straight, do not have a sexual relationship. mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad, Image: 510886271, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad / Media Drum World / Profimedia

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Lucy, Melin i Rodrigo

- Ipak, zamolila me da prvo uživamo u samo našoj ljubavi, htjela nam je dati vremena, dozvoliti vezi da 'procvjeta', a poslije - pa vidjet ćemo kako će se situacija razvijati - rekao je Contreras Diaz.

Tako je i bilo - pune četiri godine ovi supružnici bili su fokusirani isključivo na vlastiti brak, a onda su odlučili istražiti i drugačije oblike partnerstva - krenuli su u potragu za drugom ženom koja bi se pridružila njihovoj zajednici.

Lucy pictured with Rodrigo and Melin pictured in school uniform. MONTERREY CITY, MEXICO: THIS COUPLE married ONE WEEK AFTER THEY FIRST MET and have since invited a woman TWENTY-THREE YEARS his junior to join their relationship. On May 14, 2012, marketing entrepreneur, Rodrigo Contreras Diaz (41) from Monterrey City, Mexico, met his now wife, nutritionist, Melin Velasco Reyes (31) from Guadalajara City, through a mutual friend. Sparks flew instantly and Rodrigo ended up proposing to Melin that same day, to which she agreed. After just a week of preparations, they got married on May 21, 2012. Despite only having eyes for her, he explained to her early on in their relationship that he didn?t want a traditional monogamous relationship as he lived an alternative lifestyle and was open to a polyamorous relationship, which she accepted. For four years they focussed on their relationship then re-visited their exploration of other forms of partnerships and searched for another woman to join them in their union. On April 27, 2016, whilst they were both at a bar, they met one of the waitresses, Lucy (18), who was in high school at the time. Initially Lucy was shocked when Rodrigo began flirting with her in front of Melin, but after a few hours of chatting, they became closer and formed a polyamorous relationship. Since then, he admits that the addition of Lucy has positively improved his marriage with Melin and they now all plan to get married as a throuple, although Melin and Lucy, who are both straight, do not have a sexual relationship. mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad, Image: 510886270, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad / Media Drum World / Profimedia

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Lucy, Rodrigo i Melin

- Brak nam je polako postajao rutina, bojali smo se dosade... Počeli smo razgovarati o polioroznoj ljubavi, zajedno smo čitali o njoj, čak smo raspravljali i o svingerskim odnosima, ali shvatili smo da ipak želimo puno više od toga, trebala nam je jaka emocionalna veza - kaže Rodrigo.

Napokon, supruzi i njemu posrećilo se u travnju 2016. Tad su, naime, u jednom kafiću upoznali konobaricu, danas 18-godišnju Lucy. Srednjoškolka je isprva bila šokirana zbog činjenice da Rodrigo s njom otvoreno koketira pred vlastitom suprugom, ali poslije nekoliko sati čavrljanja, djevojka i oženjeni muškarac te njegova partnerica zbližili su se i nastavili družiti, a nakon nekog vremena odvažili su se i započeli poliomorski odnos.

Melin hugging Lucy whilst kissing Rodrigo. MONTERREY CITY, MEXICO: THIS COUPLE married ONE WEEK AFTER THEY FIRST MET and have since invited a woman TWENTY-THREE YEARS his junior to join their relationship. On May 14, 2012, marketing entrepreneur, Rodrigo Contreras Diaz (41) from Monterrey City, Mexico, met his now wife, nutritionist, Melin Velasco Reyes (31) from Guadalajara City, through a mutual friend. Sparks flew instantly and Rodrigo ended up proposing to Melin that same day, to which she agreed. After just a week of preparations, they got married on May 21, 2012. Despite only having eyes for her, he explained to her early on in their relationship that he didn?t want a traditional monogamous relationship as he lived an alternative lifestyle and was open to a polyamorous relationship, which she accepted. For four years they focussed on their relationship then re-visited their exploration of other forms of partnerships and searched for another woman to join them in their union. On April 27, 2016, whilst they were both at a bar, they met one of the waitresses, Lucy (18), who was in high school at the time. Initially Lucy was shocked when Rodrigo began flirting with her in front of Melin, but after a few hours of chatting, they became closer and formed a polyamorous relationship. Since then, he admits that the addition of Lucy has positively improved his marriage with Melin and they now all plan to get married as a throuple, although Melin and Lucy, who are both straight, do not have a sexual relationship. mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad, Image: 510886266, License: Rights-managed, Restrictions: , Model Release: no, Credit line: mediadrumworld.com / @trikytriad / Media Drum World / Profimedia

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Melin, Rodrigo i Lucy

- Druga žena pozitivno je utjecala na moj brak s Melin i sad se svo troje planiramo vjenčati, ali njih dvije nemaju seksualne odnose. Razmišljamo i o djeci... Naš odnos ne razlikuje se od drugih veza - međusobno se podupiremo, razumijemo i volimo - objašnjava ovaj marketinški stručnjak iz Meksika.

Dodaje kako su njihove obitelji i okolina općenito različito reagirali na njihov odnos, ali poštovanje je, srećom, prevladalo.

- Samo zato što naša ljubav nekima izgleda drugačije, ne znači da je manje važna od 'normalnih' ljubavi. Ne želimo da nas se etiketira kao trojac - mi nismo promiskuitetni, imamo osjećaje i naša veza je puno više od onoga što se događa u krevetu - zaključuje Rodrigo, koji s Melin i Lucy želi snimiti film o poliamoriji (višeljublju) - održavanju intimnih odnosa romantične i/ili seksualne prirode s više od jedne osobe, ali uz znanje i pristanak svih partnera.

- Želimo svijet bez predrasuda - slažu se svo troje.